Sunday, April 5, 2009

Coupon insert alert

As I run out the door to church, I wanted to alert you to the fact that there are FIVE coupon inserts in today's paper.
If you are contemplating cutting a few to see what you can save, then pick up an extra paper. :)

Can't wait to show you all my treasures from yesterday.
Here's just a sneak peak....

Don't you just want to gaze at this fabric all day long?
I know, me too.
And they were free scraps...now what should I do with them?
That was not rhetorical.
I still haven't decided...a swag perhaps?
The creative juices are burning.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Freebie Fun

Welcome to our newest edition of FUN FREEBIES (or nearly free):

1. Yea for Vistaprint!! I have ordered from VistaPrint so often and am pleased every time.
Funny story! When I went to Blissdom EVERYONE had personalized blog cards except for me. I quickly scratched my blog name on the back of my Homemade Gourmet cards (which I got from Vista).
It looked so professional - ha. :) Well, for $2, I think I am going to get some Beauty and Bedlam cards. They have lots of other fun personalized things as well. The kids have been asking for their own cards. This may be a fun b-day surprise for my son.


2. Do you have a BD Mongolian barbeque near you? Find out here if you do.
If yes, then sign up for a free stir fry dinner.

3. (expired)


4. I've mentioned this before. I love this BC newsletter. Adorable ideas, and lots of coupons sent with it. Easy to unsubscribe if you don't want it anymore.
Betty Crocker Spring Recipes

5. Sign up to get great deals and tips, plus a $2 coupon for Aveeno. YEA! This will make it nearly free when they goes on sale at CVS/Walgreens. (edited to add: it's on sale at CVS so print this off now).
Aveeno Coupon



7. And yes, since I have balanced my weight through the years, this would surely have been AWESOME!
Slim-Fast

8.My son uses Neutrogena a lot, but we sampled first.
Dove(R) Cleansing Cloths help refresh your skin while Neutrogena(R) Cleansing Cloths repair and heal your skin. Get a sample
Click Here

9.I thought this was crazy, until my husband got excited about the Financial magazine he could get for free. 100's to choose from. Some may be in your professional field or your hubby's. :)

Trade Publication Magazine

10.Buy one mocha or latte get one free from Border/Seattles Best Coffee is still available through April.


FUN FREE ACTIVITIES FOR THE KIDS TOMORROW
(Sorry, these dates have passed.)


Let me know of other free or nearly free things, and I will add them to our list.
Some from last week have not expired - check those out as well. :)

Building a Core Wardrobe - Frugally

If you haven't read the first Frugal Fashionista post, click here to get the background!

One of the most difficult stumbling blocks in purchasing clothes at thrift stores is the huge amount of "junk" one has to go through in order to find the "jewel."

Identifying essential pieces in a core wardrobe makes that process much easier because there is a starting place to the "search and score" process.
The majority of larger thrift stores have clothing "organized" in some chaotic pattern - dresses, long sleeve tops, jeans, slacks etc.
Often I don't have time to meticulously look at every piece.
So when I enter any thrift store the first thing I look for (and actually feel for, yes, I run my hands down the rows feeling for great fabrics) are little black dresses, pants, and tops. Black is classy on everyone, and can be accessorized in so many ways.

Our goal is to establish a quality core wardrobe that oozes class in its cut, color, fabric, and style. Essentials that will last for years to come.
Building a core wardrobe is key whether women buy retail or second hand.

Magazines cover this topic but recommend planning on investing thousands of dollars for these pieces. They assure you, it's worth it in the long run!

With the frugal fashionista approach, we'll save thousands. :)
Identifying ten key pieces (and mine will probably vary as I do this series) will allow us to mix and match to make numerous complete outfits, and then we'll add in the flashy fun.

I had a few questions about what to do for plus sizes.
The great thing about these core pieces is that it does not matter what size you are.
I have been 40lbs heavier in the past (no...not when I was pregnant...lol), and I do understand the challenges that come with larger sizes.
I have shopped thrift spanning ten sizes, so I will be sensitive to that.
Core wardrobe pieces are important, especially for larger sized women.
Don't fall into the trap that says "clothes only look good on a size 2."
You can look classy and chic whether you're size 2 or 22.

Back to the ten pieces, I tangented. :)
There are various opinions on what should be in those essential pieces.

I will briefly share what stylist Tim Gunn says, considering I have all those pieces in my wardrobe right now, but will be adding a few more of my own.
Each week, I will focus on a new aspect.
Ok, I'll be honest. You'll probably get what ever outfit I was wearing the day before I post, since that's how this blogger works. hee hee

I have committed to shorter posts, so you don't have to brew a pot of coffee each time you read me. Can't wait to embellish on all of these items.

Tim Gunn's 10 Essential Items Every Woman "Needs" - (wants)

• Basic black dress (ohhh-I love these and have many :)
• Trench coat (yep, found three this year second hand)
• Classic dress pants (start with black, you'll find many at thrift stores)
• Classic white (if you're cool toned) or off-white (if you're warm toned) shirt
(there are lots of stylish ones...it doesn't have to look like a man's shirt.)
• Skirt (A-line style looks great on everyone)
• Blazer/Jacket
• Day dress (come on - be fun and feminine or cute and sassy)
• Cashmere sweater/any occasion Top
• Jeans (some fabulous wearing ones)
• A comfortable alternative to a sweatsuit

My additions are: a great quality T-shirt - v-neck or crew, chic tank or camesole, fun accessory pieces such as a great shamina (pasmina), wraps or shawls, chunky necklace, one outrageously trendy piece, boots...well, I'm getting ahead of myself. Stay tuned.
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So here is my Frugal Fashionista outfit that I wore on Sunday.
We had the hardest time getting these pictures, and this is the only serious one my son took.
He realized that it was too sunny outside, so we decided to go in the shade a bit.
Well, it was a really windy day here in NC, and my hair kept flying in my face.
I didn't know that my son kept taking pics, but they are pretty funny.
Besides the windy hair, I have a Yellow Lab who just wants to retrieve.
So I would quick try and throw the ball.....giving us enough time to take a picture.
Then she brought me the kick ball and I thought that would give me a more time...

But that didn't work either...
I was getting hot. I was thinking these black boots weren't meant for kick ball.
So the bottom line is that this frugal fashionista will have to try some new modeling techniques.
But it's all part of balancing beauty and bedlam, right? So what is the price point on these items?
Glad you asked. Really, they look a bit classier without the kick ball setting.

*Basic black skirt - A-Line style...looks good on everyone.
$2 yard sale
*Banana Republic basic black T-shirt.
$1 yard sale
*Green wrap
$2 Carolina Thrift Store - brand new with tags
*Aerosole Leather Boots
$5 thrift store
*Matching necklace and earrings
$2 brand new in package, yard sale
TOTAL COST:
$12!!!
And if anything, it was less because I may have gotten the $2 yard sale items for $1, but I didn't want to underexaggerate. :)
And if you want to dress it down, you just switch out the shoes, but wait for the legs to get a bit tanner, and then enjoy the cozy T-shirt. Now that I brought attention to my calves, I almost didn't post this for fear of acknowledging their far from perfect status....but I did - anyhow.
Just keeping it real.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Frugal Living - Fox News Segment

Many of you that live out of state have requested that I put the link up here so that you can watch it.
Now, you can chuckle with me. Just don't look too closely. :)

Personally, I am thrilled that the message of frugal living is being looked at more closely as a viable, fun and creative option. The anchor woman set up the piece very nicely, which isn't shown on the clip. She ended the segment with very positive comments as well.
The segment didn't go into any specific details on how to accomplish a more frugal lifestyle.
So unfortunately, it may pique curiosity from those who watched it, but since they didn't actually say the name of my blog...boo hoo...viewers will have to do a bit of work to find me.

All in all, it was a wonderful experience, and I was already asked if I would be open to doing things in the future. :)
Surely, I'd be honored...if they name my blog, and don't make me talk about deep cleaning. hee hee

Click here to see the whole segment - Fox News Interview.

Posted: Real Life

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Welcome to the Fox Visitors

I am so thrilled that you have found your way to my journey of Balancing Beauty and Bedlam.
This is where I share my ramblings.
Just one woman trying to balance it all...frugal homemaking, intentionality and the joy/bedlam of five children.

If you'd like to be notified of my new posts by email, feel free to click here to "subscribe."
That way, you won't be a day late when I announce the newest freebies (click here to see some of the examples. Many expire quickly).

I am in the process of updating many features. I am excited that I will be adding many new tutorials on couponing, thrifting, and of course, dressing with a designer wardrobe on a yard sale budget.

To get you started, feel free to browse my archived posts found on the left side of my blog.
Some of the topics you may enjoy -

Balancing the Budget

Balancing Meal Time Mountain

Couponing/CVS video

Balancing Family Values, tradition ideas